Now, I am in health. I have come to the conclusion that I am all of the following: a fixer, a people pleaser, a clinger, and a controller. Here are the health book definitions of these words....
- Fixer- person who tries to fix other people's problems
- People pleaser- someone who is always concerned with the approval of others
- Clinger- a needy and dependent person
- Controller- a person who is possessive, jealous, and domineering
I have recently (about 7 minutes ago) discovered that I am all of these things. I attempt to help other people, even though it rarely works. I am WAY too concerned about what other people think about me. I am very needy and dependent. I am a lot to handle. I need to be taken care of most of the time. Now, there are times when I am completely independent and totally on top of things and fine, but then there are other times when I'm just a wimp. Moving on....I am definitely a control freak. That is a work in progress as well as the whole "love thing." At the moment, I'm thinking about how I don't need other people's approval. I only need God's. I also need to work on standing on my own instead of completely falling on other people. I think prayer can help that problem a lot. Of course, I am attempting to not be so obsessively controlling. I've been working on that for a while though. I think I've improved....a little. Anyways, I don't really know WHY I decided to write about that today, but now you know my life....
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